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In just 48 hours you will learn how to “Charge Neutral.” Notice the oxymoron.
Changing what you do makes all the difference, especially in pain and crisis.
This Course tops the list of Raving Reviews. You can’t lose.

Subtle Power

“Charging Neutral” is very subtle but extremely powerful. He will notice!

Clean Communication

“Charging Neutral” is clean communication that speaks the truth without accusations, defensiveness or explanations that destroy the moment

The Truth

“Charging Neutral” is about speaking the truth directly. No hidden agenda.

Read just a small sampling of what others say

Well I have been using charging neutral since I got your book. And all I can say WOW just WOW!!!! My fiance has been all but crawling on his knees to be back with me. More updates will follow soon

A very useful tool and something that can be used all the time. The more you use it the less likely you’ll be to become heated in an argument and I believe the less likely you’ll be to ever have one.

After receiving a message from another woman my husband has has contact with I had to face him . I found charging neutral after this for 2 days received a better result in discussing what was going on.

Recently, my husband fell into a deep depression. He responded by blaming our marriage and me for his unhappiness, that was six months ago. That is when I decided to charge neutral. I stopped letting his behavior affect me. I responded in a loving way, but made sure that I was assertive and did not allow him to verbally abuse me. If he did treat me in a way that I felt was disrespectful, I would tell him that I understand he is unhappy and believes that I am the cause of this unhappiness, but I deserve to be treated with respect. All these things have supported my effort for him to get the help he needs and change his focus of unhappiness from me.

I will never forget how empowering Charging Neutral made me feel. When I told my husband he need not move out and find an apt but instead I would be leaving him and the house as soon as I could. I also wished him good luck and that he should go a head and be with her, have her children and be happy. I was calm and collected. At that moment in time I felt “invincible.” I still smile when I think back at that moment when I found my power, without any crying or raising my voice. The words just flew out of my mouth in a very peaceful way. It made me feel strong. I’ll never forget that feeling

Charging neutral was helpful in discussing productively conflict situations.

The Abrupt change puts everything on the table.

I was less intimidated by how I thought my husband might react.

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Here’s What You Get

Digital Ebooks

Case Studies

Examples

Checklists

Much More…

charging neutral

In this Eye-Opening 

Ebook you will Learn:

  • Four major characteristics of charging neutral.
  • Four major problems in implementing charging neutral.
  • Be immersed in practical, “how to” “results oriented”
  • Case Studies. Such as:
  • I can’t say no.Mrs. Samsonite – No more game playing
  • No more tunnel vision – Feeling empowered and creating movement.
  • I finally get it – demands practice.
  • Beginning to heal – neutralizes the anger.

The “Basics of Charging Neutral…” offers a counterintuitive worksheet that points to the core of the pain, hurt and disconnect. 
Complete the worksheet and..

  • Refuse to get hooked any longer
  • Be aware of the “game”
  • Be non reactive – in control of YOU
  • Don’t fall into negative feelings
  • Don’t fall into negative thinking

The “Basics of Charging Neutral…: sets the foundation for the Healing Marriage Matrix you will use in the Marriage Building Online Course.

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Checklists are extremely helpful. I use them a great deal. 
This checklist will help you:

  • Find and hold a vision for what is good/healing
  • Be rooted in the present, rather than horrible past and fearful future
  • Keep in “recovery thinking” rather than “crisis thinking”
  • Use, value and tap into the unconscious

Use this checklist for 3 days and note what happens.

Carolynn’s Manifesto

Carolynn sent me a scathing email. 🙂
She was mad at me and yet, I just love Carolynn.
You see, I helped her “Charge Neutral” and now her unfaithful husband is begging for her to take him back.
Dang.. she says.
Paste her “Manifesto” to your bedroom mirror.
Be reminded of what truly works.

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Charging Neutral: Case Studies

Sonny, Beth, Lisa, Carol, Natasha, Ruth, Mike, Diana, Chela and Stacy share their stories of Charging Neutral.
As well, I offer my responses. In Sonny’s case we carry on a fairly long and in-depth conversation.
You will find important chunks of your situation in one or more of their experiences.
Many say, “Give me a real life example!”
Here you are.

40 Success and 7 Failure Stories 
of using Charging Neutral

I add my comments to the “failure” stories and point out specific situations when another strategy might work better.
I want to stress that Charging Neutral is not the end all. It is merely the beginning. As I said before, Charging Neutral provides a great opportunity to get fast relief and quick results, but those results are temporary.
The old patterns and feelings will emerge. But with a bases of Charging Neutral you now have a process that guides you and is in reserve as you use different Tools to build a foundation of love.

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Over 3 Decades of Experience, Wisdom and Helping People

Hi I’m Bob,

P.S. My wife’s affair made crystal clear my passion and purpose – to provide others with solid, proven, practical and tested resources to find a relationship and love that is easy, natural and spontaneous.
I’m glad you are here. I look forward to working with you.
P.S.S. Please know I offer a free 15 minute consultation to those who purchase a product, depending on my schedule.
P.S.S.S. See you in the Course and look forward to our 15 minute conversation.

Dr. Bob

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